Are girls the only "emotional creatures?"

Being a girl...i know how the girls are bound to be treated as the most "emotional and sensitive creature" on earth... Which i think is not true in all the cases...
i know exceptions are present everywhere...in my case too, am pretty much sure that girls would be disagreeing with the point somewhere or the other....

What i believe is the girls, from birth are said to be the more sensitive and more emotional creations and while talking about the indian stereotypes they are the ones who are much physically weak as compared to men...they are bound to perform the household works...and take care of the family....


Is this the only task which they'll perform for the whole life?

And the thought that "behind every successful man,there's a woman" makes me believe that a woman, a lady and a girl is the one acclaimed as success maker then how could she be considered as the weaker one?
         

                              I know there are times when women get emotionally weak which is fine sometimes... but considering them the crying and emotionally weak creature all times is just not done...
Even in the indian history there are courageous women including rani of jhansi...who fought for their rights all alone...

       
          As far as my view is concerned i would never take a girl to be misunderstood as a weak creature rather a girl is the prettiest creature god had made..

HAPPY DIWALI ???!!!

                              A very happy Dhanteras to all my readers and a very happy Diwali in advance...

The only reason for me writing this blog a day before Diwali is to wake you all up from the thing we, more or less know and are aware of but for an instance, I also wanted to be one of them who promote to be on the safer side of things and events..

The festival of diwali or deepawali (originally) is  celebreated because it is believed that Lord Rama chandra (who is seventh incarnation of lord VISHNU)  returned to his people after 14 years of exile during which he fought and won a battle against the demons and the demon king, Ravana.

It is known as the festival of lights which is one of the largest and brightest of them all. It is celebrated all over India and Indian people. On Diwali night, Hindus dress up in new clothes or their best outfit, light up diyas (lamps and candles) inside and outside their home, participate in family puja (prayers) typically to Lakshmi – the goddess of wealth and prosperity. After Puja, fireworks follow,then a family feast including mithai (sweets), and an exchange of gifts between family members and close friends. Deepavali also marks a major shopping period in nations where it is celebrated.

But do we,celebrate this festival in it's true sense? We all do pooja ,have sweets,decorate our homes and ourselves too but are we doing the same for our environment too? do we care for mother nature and return her the love and affection she gives us all?

 

The crackers and aatishbaji we do in only 2 days of diwali adds up further to the pollution we emit by our cars buses trucks and other things over the year and it also is broadening up the hole in ozone layer which protects us from the harmful ultra -violet rays...

        

   Furthermore the smoke and harmful chemicals which are blown out of all these cackers creates                     the greenhouse effect more enhanced which is making earth a more warm place by 2% every year which is also a matter for concern at international level. 

UNEP (united nations environment programme) keeps on making plans,procedure,steps and schemes to engage countries accross the world to make world a safer and healthier place to live.

By mentioning all this, the point I wanted to put across is that one should celebrate diwali as a festival of lights and not a mean to burn a lot of  money and effort over buying crackers....

 We have the right and liberty to be happy over festivals but we should consciously think about environment too at the same time....

And we should also prefer the traditional way of  celebrating diwali we should light up earthen diyas and prefer to be more natural than buying and burning our money over china made products and lightings...

        

In Delhi,or anywhere the one who spends a lot on crackers and lighting of the house is considered more affluent and richer than the ones who don't do the same...

but the ones who doesn't burn money over crackers much are wiser enough....

At last, it's a humble request to you all to be nature conscious and and burn as less or no crackers this diwali.. Be safe and a very HAPPY DIWALI to all of you...

DADDY'S DAUGHTER

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PAPA'S GIRL

Daddy's little angel is the girl who is now writing this blog...


this piece of mine is dedicated to my lovely papa who had just went away back for his job in London...




My dad or my Papa has been my friend,philosopher and guide since my childhood days...and for now not just talking about the bonding i and my father share... i think most of the daughters in this universe would have the same feeling for their fathers cause all the dad in this world do care adore and pamper their daughters like no one else does...



I do have bonding with my mom....but that is not as much special as i share with my lovely papa.






there have been moments where i felt that there's no one in this world who can understand my feelings and the situation i was getting through but even in such times dad was just a phone call away and always there for me to make me strong enough to face the circumstances...even if i was crying in the midnight in India he would, don't know how call me all the way through LONDON  and tackle through the matter...

such is the emotional bond of me and my dad.




On a funny note,we also used to joke a lot and sometimes share funny videos at Whatsapp...and he also used to give me funny nick names for which i used to cry and laugh at same time...(it's not easy to do that but i really do it)...





My dad used to come every year for a month in Delhi to meet the family and celebrate the birthday of any one amongst us ( one whose birthday comes in this month is the luckiest of us all 4 and gets whatever he or she wants). Besides all this he used to bring lots and lots of chocolates and clothes which is the most imagined fantasy of girls...


but the thing which makes me feel happy is that dad's finally home...
 we don't really used to take care of things and money and spend it like anything (i mean it)...

So,yes i can finally say that my dad is my hero not just because he used to take care of me and my sister specifically but he also used to scold us when we were getting through wrong ways in life...for which i used to cry too..


but later on he used to say sorry too...but afterwards, i realized that whatever was happening was for my betterment itself...



Rest today when i felt really is the day when dad was to go away for his work and that too for a year was a speed breaker in my sweet journey of one month...
during which everything was more than what i wanted chocolates,junk food, and more than anything else... my daddy's love and affection...

On the face of it!!!!

On the face of it!!!!
 Is shyness and pain

On the face of it!!!
Is what one doesn't wants to gain!!!

On the face of it!!!
Is life and growth...

How you gained
Confidence and a positive approach...

While in childhood
As everyone conveys

It is as careless and flawless
As a flowing river

Moving towards the youth age
It starts getting more better...

On the Face of it,
 is displayed it's awakening...

The rise and experience conveys
it's hardships in journeys...

Yes...she's the woman....
 Whom I'm talking about
She's joyous and charming and everyone

The absolute inspiration,
The ideal, the woman,
And the one whom
my world revolves around

Armymen and their widows

"Sarfaroshi ki tamanna ab hamare dil main hai...
Dekhna hai zor kitna bazu-e-katil main hai"
are the words of great warriors of india...the real son of bharat mata and the ones who have sacrificed their lives in battlefield for India....

     These brave men have sacrificed their lives in serving the nation...but what about their family??
What about their children??
Would they be able to secure their future?

Would they be able to spend their lives peacefully?
The pension which is promised to the family is it enough to live life?
 Be it the indo-pakistani war of 1947-1948 or the kargil war of july 1999...indian martyrs have never laid back in showing patriotism towards country...

But the widows of armymen have been going through a great struggle..that too for their livelihood as well as for their family...Indian government has promised them a pension of 30% and are also allowed to have a second marriage....
Moreover, such a low amount of 10,000 to 12,000 (approx) would this be much sufficient for the family of a widow in such inflating rates..when an individual today spends more than 12,000 per month as personal expense....

Even if their children are promised to be taught in army schools and are given the post of father.... but what about the girl child...would she be also taken for the same post? even this much is not sufficient for the whole family...

 Government should be taking firmer and more stronger steps to ensure the wellbeing of family of these martyrs....

If you also feel something after reading this...then please suggest what can we do for them? 

Culture of materialism?

                Culture of materialism?

"Money can't buy happiness"....is what we all think....but the theory of materialism and it's believers have a different perspective....

It's been a long time since I've written my last blog...and I was really looking forward to a topic to hit me so that I can wake up from the nap!!!! (I pretended to be sleeping for my readers)...
           
             but I have finally woke up and decided to write about materialism....materialism can be defined a tendency to consider material possessions and physical comfort as more important than spiritual values.

                                                                                          We buy things ,products, services by being online and personally going to the shop... it's only going.. or I should say running towards products....more and more...there is a lot more products available in the market to attract you buy them...they are colourful and soothing to the eyes....much more pleasing  that you cannot even think of the money in the pocket and buy them anyhow.....

Taking the example of the small things of daily use.. be it the toothpaste.... you've a lot more varieties of the same...one for sensitive tooth..one with salt...another with gel base and red toothpaste....

You have to think twice and thrice before choosing between them...and there is also a probability of buying everything from the supermarket...which even wasn't essential and forgetting of the toothpaste....

The theory of materialism is so much prevalent nowadays that people do judge others personality and behaviour by seeing and noticing the products one brings in use.... these products are so much in competition that they promise to provide you happiness, luck, and everything in favour of your good...

So..what I think about materialism is that one shouldn't give more preference to the "things" or products one uses besides.... feel free to use which is necessary instead of making impression and not just use things for the sake of attractive advertising  of the product and the fake promises that products made...

  

Today, we are living in a materialised world...where u can't cut yourself off from the world...but one shouldn't not blindfoldedly choose amongst them...

The parody of indian tv serials

The evergreen indian tv serials are told to be the mirror of society... and show the events and prodigies taking place....
but I wonder how can a person have road accident,more than one marriage, plastic surgery, memory loss and sudden remembring of the whole then by just a small thing related to the past.... come on you got to be kidding....
     
 I have never seen or met a person ever in life who have had  these things altogether.... and the funniest thing of them all is that the person gets alive after being killed by the so called villain just to take the revenge of being murdered....Duhh!!!!

Another thing which I noticed about the daily soaps is the fact that most of them have a big fat happy family, being loving and caring to each other and suddenly reveals the real face of one of the most loving person as the wicked one!!!! Omg!!!! That's what is known as twist...

Another thing is the melo drama between two women in the house and the attempt to slap each other...and after getting the tight slap in front of the family....the other one starts crying with a tragic background sound....

 In fact, I wonder how come the woman of today so weak and impoverished that she cries for a slap and some abusive language...I strictly oppose the potrayal of woman as just busy housewife performing all the household work and taking care of the family...  what I know about today's woman is that she is strong and independent and at same time caring and loving towards the family

One irritating fact which I cannot ignore to mention about them is that they are very contagious....and I mean that...

one cannot stop her imagining about the next episode as mostly the half hour serial stops at a curios point of our interest....

at last all which saves us from this is the reality tv shows which are mostly the light hearted comedy shows..or some singing or dancing contest...which makes us aware of the real outer world (in spite of the news)

Nowadays, a lot more changes are seen in daily soaps for example...Instead of toatally women oriented programmes directors had switched a bit to  ...

                   

showcase the role of men

which is quite commendable....

Please take note that all things written is what i observed about them...not intended to hurt the serial lovers...

but remember excess of anything dangerous!!!! Even the daily soaps...